Grief

Five Ways to look at Grief

There are many ways you can look at grief.  I will list a few of them.
1.  Seeing grief as a jigsaw puzzle.  At times you will feel like you have it all together.  Then something will happen to make your life fall apart.  The pieces of the puzzle are tried to be put back together, [...]

Tips on Remembering the Person who died

Do you have any kind of relationship with someone when they die?  Of course.  You have a relationship of memory.  Precious memories, dreams reflecting the significance of the relationship and objects that link you to the person who died (such as photos, souvenirs, clothing, etc.) are examples of some of the things that give testimony [...]

When you feel alone in your grief

When you feel all alone in your grief and think no one understands, know that God is your friend and will be there to listen to you.
Trust in God and talk to him about your pain and loss.  Be honest with God.  Tell God what is in your heart.  If you are angry with God [...]

Tips for family and friends of someone grieving

So often when a loved one dies, family and friends do not know what to say or do.  Any kind of support is appreciated by the bereaved.  Whether it be a hug, phone call, bringing food to their house, or just listening.  It really doesn’t matter what you say, as it probably won’t be remembered [...]

Choppy Thoughts for Grieving, Part 2

Society often gives a person 3 months to “get over” their grief.  If it is a tragic death, then society may give you up to 6 months to get beyond your grief.  Because of these time tables, it can prevent people from grieving.  In reality, grief is ongoing, and often lasting your lifetime.  So don’t [...]

Choppy Thoughts for Grieving, part 1

One day I sat down to write out some thoughts I had regarding grieving.  After completing what I had written, I asked my husband to read what I wrote.  He said it sounds kind of choppy, hence my title: Choppy Thoughts for Grieving. Over the next couple of blogs I would like to share what [...]

5 Tips for Grieving

When a person is grieving, it is a most difficult time.  Each person will grieve in their own way and their own time frame.  Because of that, it is best not to compare your grief to others.
Here are 5 tips to help understand your grief:
1.  When grieving, everyone needs some help, so please [...]